With the coming of autumn, Christians become aware that Halloween is just around the corner. Children become excited talking about what their costumes will be and where they are going to go trick-or-treating. This is just fine if you celebrate the holiday of Halloween. Many Christians though decide either not to celebrate, or they celebrate in a more Christian centered way. The question is though, how does a Christian teach their child about Halloween without compromising their Christian values? Included are some ideas that will hopefully point you in the right direction. Couple these ideas with prayer time asking the Lord for guidance in this area, and you can be sure you are doing the right thing for everyone involved.

A good first step is to research the subject Halloween at your local library. Discuss your findings with your Pastor to decide the best way to approach the subject with your children.

Take time to sit down with your children and explain your Christian beliefs to them. Take further time to explain how they conflict with non Christian beliefs. Do not stop them from asking questions and encourage their participation.

If you make the decision to change the name of the day, consider your children’s ideas. You can call it the “Welcome, autumn” day or the “Crazy costume” day. These are just ideas, whatever suits your family is the way to go. Use this day to fellowship, dress up in a positive costume and gorge on your favorite sweets.

Spend time together as a family carving a autumn pumpkin. Though the pumpkin does not need to be scary looking, this may be something you are not thrilled about doing. Try replacing the pumpkin with a watermelon and carve a big smiley face instead. Make sure all your children get a turn at carving and pray together before and after your activity.

If your family decides to give candy to children at your door, you can “modify” this “tradition” also. Don’t buy candy weeks before. You can actually find candy on the 31st, but you more than likely can find it at a reduced rate also saving some money. Attach you and your children’s favorite bible verse to each treat. Not only are you spreading God’s word, you are also inventing a activity that you can all do together.

Stand by your convictions and beliefs. Have fun together as a family and don’t let others opinion or pressure sway what you believe.

By spending time with your children and explaining why you celebrate Halloween the way you do can make all the difference. They will still end up enjoying the day, without forgetting our Lord. They may even make an impression on other children, by spreading God’s love to them as well. Remember to never leave the Lord out of the picture and to have fun as a family. Enjoy the day!